bladder control/nerve hurts?

i don’t mean to be offering to much, but i recently lost my virginity (VERY safe, condom, no diseases) and a week later, i literally peed in my pants, like i couldn’t control it which i usually can, very easily. i was about to go and it wouldn’t stop. and also, the nerve that runs along my you know what really really hurts. and i’m actually very very scared about this so please help me out

First of all, you should not panic. These sorts of problems are very common, although people don’t talk about them much. A single episode of incontinence (loss of bladder control) does not mean you’ve got a lasting problem (in fact, that’s very unlikely). The sudden urge followed by emptying of your bladder suggests irritation of the bladder. The most likely explanation is a bladder infection (a VERY common problem that can often occur after sex). Irritation of the bladder near the ureters often radiates down along your sides into your crotch (often the labia, actually), which seems to be what you’re describing. So it all fits with a simple UTI.

I hope you’re reassured by this long explanation. The bottom line is that you should call your doctor and just get checked out quickly. It can be as simple as a urine test and a prescription for 3 days of antibiotics.

Good luck. Please feel free to e-mail me if you have any other concerns.


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